John C. Maxwell

key points - 

• The best message is the message you take on paper while the big message is one that you take on your heart.
• Make your first impression the true expression of who you are.
• If you want friends, you close the gap, if you want fans, you wide the gap.
• People with charisma always put other people first and the people who lack charisma, always put themselves first.
• The stronger you feel it, the more people believe it.